the secret things we hide in our hearts... away from the light... away from the ones we love...
afraid of being misunderstood...
of being un-forgiven...
of rejection and punishment...
fear is never rational - grown men fearful of insects the size of the toenails
or is it? isnt fear put in us to warn us of potential threats?

adam and eve hid after they had eaten the fruit, breaking the communion and the perfect truthful relationship they have with God. sin brings about shame, fear and breaks relationships. as in marriages and relationships, infidelity begins when one party begins to feel that communication has been broken... it's a cycle really...

broken communication --> detachment --> seek new channels of communication (maybe with third parties) --> further detachment --> further lack of communication

it all started with that mis(sing)-communication doesnt it? then comes someone or something who seems more capable to fill that emptiness...

i believe relationship is all about communication - a mutual understand and acceptance rooted in love and humility... it's sad when u cant tell the other party what u r thinking, for fear of misunderstanding, unforgiveness and rejection... and everyone seems to accept that that IS the way it IS, some even tell me that what i am looking for doesnt exist...

does it? God knows...

本来应该心心相印，若其中一个分了心，印出来的将只是缺陷。。。